litmus test is a scientific method using treated paper to check if a liquid is an acid or a base. In daily life, people use it as a common phrase for a single, simple test that helps make a big decision or show a person’s true views. (From Merriam webster)
I have had people tell me various litmus tests to being a good person. Many of them required things that as my body has aged were not possible for me. Or at least not consistently possible.
I have always considered myself to be a good person. Judging based on how I put the cart back or don’t use “cripple” carts are not in my mind good indications. Instead, I will judge myself based on the kindness I show.
Do I return grocery carts? Yes, when I am able. But sometimes I need to lean on that cart to walk, which means I can’t return it and still return to my vehicle. Do I use the “Cripple” Cart? yeah…because again some days I cannot walk. Judgements based on such things are ableism at best, cruel at worst.
There are other “Litmus Tests” that have been presented over the years. Honestly, All of them have flaws if you use them to judge how a person is good or bad. Is the person generally kind? Everyone has bad days. So I refuse to judge a person based on an always statement. Instead look at how they act Most of the time. Look at how they treat those who are not their equal. (Ex Children, and Animals) Look at how they treat themselves and their community. Are they cruel by nature? These are things I will judge a person on…and even then I lean towards the idea that it might just be a bad day.
I prefer against judging others as I hate being judged. Still, many are quick to do just that. Not many are privy to my life. So telling me that I have to pass some imaginary standard to be a good human…well it is not appropriate. Instead, try living your own life as a good person and stop nosing in others lives.
Pattimouse 